The article is a piece from Dan Savage’s advice column where a reader in a long-term relationship (LTR) discusses his experiences with bisexuality, seeing professional dominants, and various forms of sexual exploration. The reader is interested in chastity play but faces challenges due to his unique anatomy, including an undescended testicle from infancy and the fact that he is a “grower.” The reader seeks advice on how to navigate these challenges while maintaining his interest in chastity play.